Saw
this rather unremarkable yet life-changing
documentary about Dee Dee Ramone
last month. Hey is Dee Dee
Home was shot by Lech Kowalski
over two decades, but most of
the footage was filmed shortly
before Dee Dee od'd in June 2002
(which, I must point out, is a
palindrome and therefore an IRRESISTIBLE
FATE: D.D.OD'D).
The film is basically a long interview--off
the cuff, unscripted and illustrated
with cute clips of Dee Dee over
the years. It paints a very human
portrait of this dumb goofy kid
who somehow became a seminal influence
on our culture.
It's an abstract expressionist
bit--big brush strokes in four
colors. The colors are Connie,
Vera, Johnny Thunders and heroin.
The Ramones and the success of
the Ramones seemed to matter very
little to this bowl cut sporting
bad boy. He loved his guitars,
he loved music, but the story
of his life as it played on the
four-disk changer in his head
went heroin-Thunders-Vera-Connie.
The girls he loved and lived with
were tattooed on his skin, heart,
soul. So was his rivalry with
Johnny Thunders, who ripped off
Dee Dee's big hit "Chinese Rock"
(and half a dozen or so of his
girlfriends). In the end it was
the love of his life--heroin--that
killed him.
I've yet to read Dee Dee's autobiography,
LOBOTOMY. I know relatively
little of the man--just lots of
first-hand stories that he was
a dumb junkie asshole. But the
way this film distilled his life
to FOUR WORDS kinda got to me.
Life is so short--two chicks,
one stolen song and half a million
bags of dope and it's over. That's
it! If you were to tell your life
story tomorrow, what would you
say? Cash? Career? Cats? Hobbies?
Habits? Heartbreaks? If someone
made a film of your life and you
had to pick four words, what would
they be?
It's strange to me to live in
a society where the Ramones, where
Punk Rock, where Fuck You are
seminal. Look around. Our culture
has been totally punk rockified.
I've got fancy skull-and-crossbones
tissues. I saw a Paul Frank skull-and-crossbones
sweatshirt on a baby. The Queen
of England probably wears studded
cuffs and mid-riff baring t-shirts
with safety pins. Fuck You, I
mean Punk Rock, is a language
now, a religion. But to Dee Dee
Ramone it was a life. A shitty,
boring, hard, fucked, funny short
life.
Life-is-short is a real tired
cliché. It makes me panic
with it's implication that time
is running out, that I'll never
get "it" all done. After I saw
Hey is Dee Dee Home I thought
seriously about getting "Connie"
and "Vera" tattooed on me, an
homage to this fuck-up as much
as a reminder to fuckin' fuck
up more, to fuckin' live!
But last night folkie nightingale
Martha Wainwright fixed my wagon.
Martha, sister of Rufus, said,
"Life is sooo looong." Try saying
that. Then remember that it's
Tuesday January 13th or whatever
day it is and relax and enjoy
it.