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Date: Thu, 2 Jan 2003 03:34:24 EST
I noticed
that in your December issue of Exotic the
column entitled The
Cum Hungry Genius made some lewd and crude jokes
about the heinous crime of rape and of all people
that had to write it, it just had to be a woman
didn't it? The lesbians were one thing, but this
article by your Debra Jean Danger just went a
little too far!
Rape is
not funny and in my personal opinion this thing
that calls herself a woman is nothing more than
a Howard Stern wannabe (and even Stern doesn't
make fun of rape) who wants to see how many people
she can piss off with her apathetic attitude towards
a crime when this (the crime of rape) happens
to a woman in the united states every 15 seconds
and is usually committed by someone the victim
knows. I know way too many people whom this has
happened to and it is no laughing matter. Many
years ago, when I first picked up Exotic,
garbage like this was not even printed in your
magazine. I remember an Exotic that was
very sex positive and not misogynistic in its
writings. You can thank Jim Goad and the trash
(Debrah Jean Danger, and little miss I Hate Sex!)
for the rapid decline of your magazine!
Date:
Sat, 4 Jan 2003 15:03:05 -0800 (PST)
From:
"james sarff" <jbsarff@yahoo.com>
All the
strippers were offended, so my favorite magazine
becomes quite the opposite of what it was. Opinions
are like a-holes, everybody has one, all of them
stink at one time or another. If a stripper's
butthole offends me, I choose not to watch her
perform or support her dollar intake. If someone
has an opinion I disagree with, I may wish to
enter into a discussion with them about the difference,
but I certainly wouldn't take a more aggressive
route.
Controversy
DOES get you noticed more, and bowing down to
a herd of strippers (and stripper lovers) will
get you the wrong kind of attention. I wanted
Exotic to trash the industry. I wanted to see
shit-talking in every issue. Why kiss the ass
both sides have been talking about? No matter
what the men think, women will continue to take
off their clothes for money and men will pay them
to do it. No matter what the strippers say, they
will continue to do what they do as long as men
support it. Who got into this relationship for
dignity or respect? How about the fact that it
was controversial and sexy? Just about money?
We are all NOTHING, all worth a dollar, and all
exposing ourselves every day. Whoring ourselves
to whatever corporate, religious, emotional trap
we've found ourselves in. Lighten up, and let's
get back to having FUN! Boring columns equal boring
columns. Sales WILL fall.
P.S. Both
my girlfriend and I work at strip clubs, and
we laughed our heads off at Officer Partidge's
diatribe. Brilliant, entertaining, and left
me wanting more. Didn't take it to heart, just
let it warm ours.
Date:
Wed, 8 Jan 2003 10:47:33 -0800 (PST)
From:
"gary bercu" <beestufus_33@yahoo.com>
Subject:
Lola Green Baldwin Interview.
I hope
something is said about the magnificent power
women have over men when they are nude and shaking
it. In futile defiance, a man will try to verbally
degrade a woman who holds court in her arena.
The sexual arena is dark, mysterious, ancient
and wonderous. Sadly for us all,there are still,
mostly white, genteel, handwringing, upper middle
class white women who are spouting the same
old dead jargon regarding prostitution,and it's
exploitive, damaging effects. How can Ms. Greene
Baldwin be pro-prostitute, yet not pro-prostitution?
That is like being pro cannibal, but not pro-cannibalism.
I take issue with her other claim, which went
unchallenged on Reality TV (January 7th) when,
like The Mad Hatter and her dumpy little dour
mouse, she made the claim that pornography=violence
against women. What of gay male porn then?
These
New Sexual Commissars... as Ms. Camille Paglia,
a brilliant educator and writer, says, "since
when do we allow snippy little neurotic feminists
to run our lives?"
The other
point which needs to be stated is these free-associating
references to sex are made by often very pleasant,
nice, mannerly women. They appear to have all
the answers, except, upon closer examination,
they quite often don't possess adequate academic
training in Human Anatomy, physiology, biology,
let alone History. To talk to one of these "intellectuals"
you would think that the feminist movement invented
rape. I mean, don't we "exploit" a maple tree
to get maple syrup. Come on... Lets face it,
Men are trying to get in. Into the citadel.
Women have the "power" either to deny them entry
or allow them in. It would do nothing more than
infantalize women, a mysogynist action, to deny
them their Birthright, their sexual goddesshood.
I for one,am sick to death of these Polly Pure
Bred, sexually repressed,highly agendized, unscholarly
and sinister women who claim to be helping women
to empower themseleves by shutting down their
opportunity to flaunt the God Given, awesome,
inspiring, sexual power of beautiful women.
So what if it is an imperfect industry? What
industry is perfect? I don't claim to be an
expert on the sex industry,but I know what I
know as a sexual creature. It matters not whether
I participate, or pay for sexual services, but
who am I or anyone else to tell others how to
exercise their constitutional right to do so?
--Buddy
Bee Anthony, Portland
Yes.
I think.... --Publisher
Date:
Sun, 5 Jan 2003 16:59:02 -0800 (PST)
From:
"Sarah Jane" <sarrrahjane@yahoo.com>
This
is Bobbi Jo Schmidt, author of the "I Hate Sex"
column. I see that you have changed your editor
and that the magazine is going in a different
direction now... my column was more along the
lines of the old Exotic mag under Jim
Goad, so I think I should respectfully resign
and let you all get back to what you're really
about. Good luck!!!
Date:
Wed, 08 Jan 2003 12:46:52 -0800
From:
"Parsec Speed" <bigfatthing2003@yahoo.com>
To:
"Frank Faillace" <ffaillace@qwest.net>
It
seems that everyone wants to produce a porn
mag these days. You must have upset Mr. Voge
so much although he has seemingly abandoned
Xcitement. Now it seems Mark Fredrickson
the owner of Foxxx's in Salem is about to
finance another one called Temptation.
If you go to tempmag.com, you can download
the entire magazine. You will also notice
familiar artwork from both Exotic and
SFX. Most of the pictures seem to originate
from Playboy, how can they do that?
Nice cover last month.
Yes,
it seems like everyone wants to NOT make money
and have lots of headaches... they will understand
soon enough... --Publisher
Date:
Thu, 16 Jan 2003 11:25:14 -0800 (PST)
From:
"hazel*" <dirtybootlicker@yahoo.com>
How
can I contact Demi Mondaine. I loved her article
in the current issue and was wondering if
she did individual sessions.
Sorry,
Ms. Mundaine is not taking anymore clients
right now. --Publisher
Why
have a paper? Uncreditability. Bullying. Assist
in proudly serving you to introduce me or
you to globalization glory, mobilization in
financial crisis or incompetent design oversight.
"Shifty I can affirmative Portland media!"
Hellhole no. Just say know si o, yes man bwana.
May the homo sapien feel all the way to Iraq,
Trevor and all.
-- B-17
rays of laser, Tigard, Oregon
Sorry,
Mr. Henry is not taking anymore clients right
now. --Publisher
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